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Few Sessions of Mediation Can Help Prevent a Divorce

Updated: Jun 9


Divorce rates have been on the rise in recent years, and it's no surprise that the main reasons behind these marital breakdowns are disagreements over finances, unmet expectations, cheating allegations, among others. When couples face such conflicts, they often find it difficult to resolve their differences, and this can lead them to consider ending their marriage.

Before taking the drastic step of divorce, it's important for couples to consider alternatives that may help them address the underlying issues and potentially save their relationship. One option that many couples overlook is mediation.

With the increasing popularity of TV shows, movies, and news stories showcasing high-profile divorces and the drama that often accompanies them, it's easy for couples to be influenced by this portrayal. Unfortunately, this media representation tends to overlook the presence, importance, and effectiveness of mediation as a viable alternative to divorce. By focusing on the sensational aspects of divorce, the media may inadvertently contribute to the normalization of divorce as the default solution to marital problems, without giving due attention to the benefits of mediation in resolving conflicts and potentially saving relationships.


It is a process where a neutral third party, known as a mediator, helps open communication and negotiation between spouses. It's a less hostile and more cost-effective approach than heading straight to court. The aim is to rebuild trust, improve communication, and address the underlying issues that led to the conflicts in the first place.

According to a study published by the American Psychological Association, couples who went through mediation reported significantly higher levels of satisfaction, less conflict, and better communication compared to those who didn't.

Benefits of Mediation

1. Focus on Finding Win-win Solutions for Both Parties. This means that couples are more likely to come out of the process feeling heard and understood, as opposed to feeling like they "lost" in a courtroom battle.

Data from the Harvard Law School Program on Negotiation suggests that up to 80% of mediated cases reach a resolution, which is a strong testament to the effectiveness of mediation in resolving conflicts.

2. Ability to Address Emotional Issues. This often go unaddressed in a traditional legal setting. A skilled mediator can help couples navigate their emotions and understand the deeper issues at play, allowing them to work towards a solution that satisfies both parties.

According to a study published in Family Court Review, mediation participants reported higher levels of emotional well-being and lower levels of stress compared to those who went through litigation.

3. Faster and More Cost-effective. Mediation is a much cheaper alternative to divorce. While a full day of mediation may cost you almost $1000 in fees, the cost of divorce is significantly more expensive with legal fees costing several times more. Additionally, divorce may deteriorate your relationship with your ex, which will make it harder for the both of you to work together on common concerns such as raising the kids, selling the house, and more.

4. Privacy and Confidentiality. Unlike court proceedings, which are public record, mediation sessions are confidential, allowing couples to discuss sensitive issues without fear of exposure. This can foster an environment of trust and openness that encourages couples to work through their problems honestly.

For couples in Texas considering mediation, Sonja Sims Mediation is an excellent choice. Sonja is not only a licensed mediator in Texas but also an experienced family law attorney. This combination of skills brings a unique advantage to the table, as she understands both the mediation process and the intricacies of family law. With her help, couples can navigate the challenges of their relationship and potentially avoid the heartache and expense of divorce.

So before you decide to call it quits, why not give mediation a try? It might just be the solution you've been searching for.

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